Clara Hayes

Welcome to Erothots, a space created for people who want therapy that feels human, grounding, and deeply supportive. We believe that everyone deserves a place to explore who they are, heal from what is shaped them, and build the kind of relationships that feel meaningful and secure.

Our featured therapist brings a warm, steady, and straightforward style to the work. She helps clients make sense of their patterns, understand how early experiences shape adult love, and reconnect with the parts of themselves that have been carrying old pain for too long. If you are working through identity questions, intimacy challenges, trauma, or complicated relationship dynamics, the goal is always the same more clarity, more connection, and more ease in your life.

Specialties & Expertise

• Rebuilding intimacy, emotional closeness, and sexual connection

• Navigating infidelity, trust ruptures, and relationship transitions

• Identity exploration (sexuality, gender, emotional needs, attachment)

• Complex trauma and childhood wounds that echo into adulthood

• Somatic and emotional processing for people who “feel too much” or “feel disconnected”

• Support for individuals, couples, families, monogamous & non monogamous relationships

• Communication skills, conflict repair, and strengthening long term bonds

Treatment Approach

• Attachment based work to understand how early relationships shape present day patterns

• Somatic techniques that reconnect you with your body’s signals and emotional truth

• Trauma informed guidance that respects your pace and your boundaries

• Emotion focused exploration to help you express needs clearly and genuinely

• Straightforward, compassionate conversations designed to meet you where you are

Qualifications

Fees Per Session

Payment Methods

• Health Savings Account (HSA)

• Mastercard

• Visa

• PayPal

Insurance Accepted

• Aetna

• Blue Cross Blue Shield

• BlueCross and BlueShield Federal BCBS

• Moda Health

• Optum

• Premera Blue Cross

Location

• Remote Therapy Only

• Based in Austin, Texas 78731

• Serving clients throughout Texas and Florida via secure video platform

Social Media Accounts

Linkedin

Summary

1. Erothots offers a warm, grounded therapeutic experience that blends attachment science with compassionate guidance.

2. Special expertise in intimacy repair, trauma, identity exploration, and complex relationship dynamics.

3. Sessions are fully remote, designed for comfort, privacy, and flexibility.

4. Works with individuals, couples, families, and both monogamous and non monogamous relationships.

5. Accepts multiple insurance plans and convenient payment methods.